Friday, April 15, 2011

This word

What is..
'LOVE' ?

I thought i know what this word means..but only to realise that i actually don't.

It always seem so easy to tell whether other people are in love or not but why when it comes to ourselves,it is not as easy?

Is it possible for friends to become lovers?Is it possible for love to start growing from nil?

Why is it that there are people who can ignore the inner beauty and just judge from the outer?Is that ALL that matters?No wonder there are girls who go for plastic surgery.

Just hope that i can clear this mess in my head and heart and get it sorted out.Don't want it to bother me for my exam which is coming SOON.I am NOT going to allow myself to fail again.NOT NOT NOT...

5 comments:

danielchowtzeyoong said...

It is easier to tell when it is other ppl, but when it comes to ourselves, we are blinded by it. That is why the saying love is blind. I think there are many examples of friends to lovers. Think it is more of the amount of time spend together once friends click.
A very good example of love growing from nil would be arranged marriages. the effort and hard work put into the relationship. Of cos it doesn't always work. :)

danielchowtzeyoong said...

put it this way, outer beauty for short term and inner beauty for long term. If you have both, then of cos it is a bonus. I guess as a guy, it depends on what your looking for. For the moment, or for the future :)

Ling said...

People are usually blinded by love when they are in love and they don't notice anything else.But what i mean here is,how to know that we are in love.There are so many articles about signs of being in love,but how often are they actually true?How obvious are they when it comes to ourselves?

In arranged marriages,they don't have the say or the choice.If we don't have such freedom,would we think so much?There is just one person whom is suppose to be right for us,therefore loving is not that difficult as compared to our situation now.

If a guy is looking for long term but based on outer beauty?

Emily said...

Love is fire that burns and you don't see it, it's a wound that hurts but you can't feel it, it's an unhappy happiness, it's pain that hurts without hurting...

Ling said...

Wah!It is so hard to know what love is...confusing as well.