Relationship at a young age

I'm writing this based on what i feel and what i have gone through...not that i am that old and wise..but i just realised.

I started having a relationship when i was in Form 6.Well,for the younger generation it is like...SO LATE...They have theirs when they were lower secondary or maybe primary.Even so,i felt that i was a little immature when it comes to handling THIS kind of situation.

What is happening to the world right now is THIS.Starting a relationship too young.And because of it,a lot of breakups and divorces happen.Generally it is because we are not made to go through it yet.

Think about it a second...

When we are babies,we are suppose to learn the basic things we have to do to survive.At that time,we didn't know how to fight back or say no.So,we followed obediently.

When we are kids and teenagers,we are suppose to learn more about the world,gain more knowledge through education and spending time with our family.Just because we have gained a little knowledge and know how to voice ourselves,we tend to fight back and try to do things our way.Why don't we just follow the flow of it?Why don't we just concentrate on one thing at a time?Why must we make things so difficult not only for our family but to ourselves as well?Cause it is NOT easy to cope with school and relationship unless there are NO PROBLEMS at all.

When we finally reach adulthood,then only we put what we have gained into use...work,relationship and family.And at this time,concentrate on them.

I think that is what God's plan was for us.But why do we want to fight the flow?Because we think that we can be greater than God?